Medicines do come with an expiry date, so does your favourite pack of chocolates. Your French perfume! Well that too has an expiry date. But did you ever realize that your romantic partner might also not be an exception to this, I mean his feelings towards you could suddenly change one fine morning? He might just some day proclaim that he no longer feels the same for you and leave you dumbstruck. Frightening, isn’t it? But rather than getting the shock of your life and then going into a state of severe depression it is better to remain observant and prepare your heart. Here are a list of a few behavioral changes of a partner which might be an indicator that he is losing interest in you.
1.Your Partner Treats You Disrespectfully : Love and respect goes hand in hand, we automatically respect the person we love. If you find yourself in a relationship where your partner constantly abuses you, humiliates and ignores you in public, shouts at you and treats you in a not so proper manner, it’s time for you to understand that your partner is neither interested in you nor the relationship.
2.Your Partner Is Always too busy : This is probably the best and easiest excuse your partner can give you if he wishes to avoid you. Being busy is good but being too busy to give you any time, well not a very healthy sign.
3.Your Partner Does Not Communicate With You Much : We all want and do communicate with the ones we care for. If you find your partner cutting out on the communication part, halt and think. May be your partner is losing interest in you.
4.Your Partner Seems To Be least Interested In Your Life : If you find your partner talking only about himself and inquiring about you and your well being the least, may be you should start preparing yourself for the split. A person in love with you will be concerned about you and will surely take interest in your life.
5.Your Partner Puts The Blame On you For Everything : Blaming someone for no valid reason is an intentional act to push someone away. If you find your partner engaging in this sort of cowardly and cheap activity you should understand that your partner is losing interest in you.
6.Your Partner Don’t Bother To Include You : The feeling of exclusion is even worse than the feeling of rejection, specially when it comes from the person you love. It is demeaning as well as heart breaking. If you find your partner plan an outing and not include you, if you find him sharing his news of promotion with his friends but you, don’t get surprised rather prepare yourself mentally and stop expecting anything from this man.
7.Your Partner Starts Ignoring Your Inner Circle : Ignoring, disrespecting, avoiding your inner circle by your partner might be an intentional act simply to provoke anger. A person who loves you will respect your inner circle too and vice versa.
8.You Fight Alone The Battle Of Your Life : We all need someone with whom we can share not just our happiness and success but our sorrows, fear, rejections and failure too. Someone who shall understand and empathize. We might portray a very happy and “I care a damn” kind of image to the world at large but deep inside we all are vulnerable and we truly want someone to understand and value the real us. If you find your partner too engaged to understand you or your feelings, if he has no time to sit beside you and listen to you, if your struggle is only your struggle then it is a sure indicator that your partner is disinterested in you.
9.Your Partner Seem To Forget A Lot : When you find your partner forgetting things (concerning you ) a lot, which he used to remember, it is a sign of disinterest.
10.Your Partner Treats Other Better Than You : When your partner is cordial and courteous to everyone else but you, it is a sign that things are disintegrating fast and that your partner is losing interest in you.
Why we fall in love with someone and then why do we fall out of it again will probably remain a mystery. A mystery too hard to solve. Sometimes people get bored and look for other excitement, sometimes the flaws of our partner become too prominent, sometimes after getting to know someone well, we become disillusioned, sometimes we simply forget that we need to nurture a relationship to make it happen. We need to accept both the good and bad. Whatever might be the case, a sudden break-up can shatter the one who’s still unfortunately in love with the partner. The only thing one can do is to accept and not break down.
